The New Year
Some thoughts, and a poem
The beginning of a new year can be a daunting time for some, despite the good cheer and revelry. Indeed, as the days march into January, the challenges ahead for ourselves, our families, and our society begin to reappear in stark relief against the financial hangover of the holiday season and the lingering bonhomie of its celebrations. This is a good time to take stock, mark progress, make resolutions. Even better, to make changes instead of promises.
My thoughts turn to perspective, to seeing the world and life as it is and fashioning an attitude of purpose, ready for opportunity. Ready for another year.
For the Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius, and other Stoic philosophers, perspective was grounded in the understanding that life must be lived with the knowledge of its brevity. Memento Mori - “Remember, you’re going to die.”
You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.
— Marcus Aurelius
Far from being morbid, this reflection can be bedrock for taking stock and making changes. It can be a positive, and realistic, force for continuing the fight regardless of challenge, disappointment, and the fatigue of years. It can even be a call to arms. I’m reminded of the words of Syrio Forel to Arya Stark, in Game of Thrones.
There is only one god and his name is death.
And there is only one thing we say to death: Not today. — Syrio Forel, GOT
Fin de Siècle
I’ve lived the days
of a hundred years,
a hundred hundred, more,
until weary resignation blurs
and purpose obdures.
Do not let go. Your grip must hold!
Defer the day.
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